Children’s fights, bullying, oppression, aggression – these are topics that, unfortunately, have become very relevant recently and which, of course, are very worrying for parents.
Everyone tries to solve the problem in their own way, when it concerns their child, some parents in this attempt even exacerbate it and sometimes we get worse results.
This time we offer the experience of one mother, which will be interesting and enjoyable for many. Maia Otiashvili writes about how she approached this issue and what results her interesting method yielded.
“Hello, moms. We all have children, they go to school and we don’t know what our children do at school.
How they treat others or how they treat others, classmates or others.
When you ask a teacher how my child is behaving, does he fight or does he fight with others, we often hear that he is a good boy, he doesn’t hurt anyone, but then we face the fact, we find out that he was a victim of bullying or was an oppressor himself…
I want to tell you my story about this and maybe it will be useful to someone and we can save and protect many children. I transferred my son from the second grade to another school. He suffered a lot and eventually overcame it and made friends with his new classmates.
However, one boy was very persistent, he wouldn’t let me rest, they were always fighting. Once I took him out of school beaten up.
The next day I went to school and found out that he was also well I was very worried about my son. I didn’t know what to do anymore, and I decided to call the boy’s parents.
I called and said, hello, I’m Andria’s parent and our children don’t understand each other… – and I stopped, waiting for that lady’s words, tone. Suddenly, she started talking to me with a changed tone, a slightly rough voice.
I stopped her and said: – Madam, if you agree, maybe we can take our children somewhere this Saturday and they can get to know each other better, become friends.
To the cinema, even to an entertainment center… In her confused voice – yes, sir, I agree..
Saturday came. Since morning, I didn’t tell Andria where I was taking her, otherwise she wouldn’t have followed me. Neither did the other person. We met by chance, and do you know what happened?
They had such a good time and became such friends that they still They are inseparable friends, our parents also became friends and we are very close and good friends…
Sorry, I went on and on, but I wanted to tell you, maybe it will be useful to someone.
P.S. Don’t push your children to hit you if you get hit. Don’t teach them violence.
Kindness is contagious!”
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Source: Parents.ge
